Wednesday, May 31, 2006

Friends~



The importance of friendship~

We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere.

Friday, May 26, 2006

Chloe~


Have you ever loved someone without ever meeting them?
I have. I'm in love with little Chloe.
She came into our life on the 7th of April. She's a bundle of delight. My cousin Celeste's little girl.
Chloe is so beautiful, she makes the most adorable facial expressions. She's the apple of my eyes.
I'm feeling clucky. I want my own bubba to love...lol But, realistically that won't happen to me for a lonnnng time.

Thursday, May 25, 2006


Girl's Softball team. With lots of Champion Flags!! Posted by Picasa

School Track&Field team. Posted by Picasa

Run boys, run. (^_^)  Posted by Picasa

The big day!!! Run boys, run. Posted by Picasa

My 84 Junior High School students. Posted by Picasa

Preparing for our Big Sports Carnival, which was held last weekend. Posted by Picasa

Was invited to speak to some Jpanese grandmas and grandpas, in Japanese. First time for everything. It was fun. Posted by Picasa

Lately....

This is what I've been up to lately. Practising for our sports festival. Practising for our sports festival. AND practising for our sports festival. Thank goodness it's over now. But, we were practising for our sports festival alright!

The days before the festival, it was raining cats and dogs. But on the day, Mr.Sunshine decided to shower us with his rays, and it was a beautiful day. Actually got sunburnt on that day. Had to work 7 days that week. Very very tiring. Took Monday and Wednesday off just to recover. Oops.

Anyways, posted up some pics of my fabulous kids.

What else is happening in my life? umm. Nothing much. Just been so busy lately with work, friends and events. But nothing too spectacular. Oh, yeah, I've been watching this drama called Prison Break. Very interesting and very intense. But I want to know what happens. I'm such a scaredy cat, because I'm watching PB on my pc, when I think Fish is going to get caught, I pause it just so I can get myself together before the next scene. LoL. Oh well, thus is life in drama land.

Friday, May 12, 2006

Flower vs Gardener

In a realtionship are you a FLOWER or a GARDENER??

I stumbled upon this question when I was watching TV last night, and I thought it was quite interesting.

So, which one am I? Flower is the one being taken care of in a relationship, more of a taker. Gardener is the one taking care of the other person, a giver.

It's hard to be just one and not the other in a relationship because it's not equal, and it's quite selfish and unfair. But in my next relationship, I definitely want to be the FLOWER (in the beginning :p) . I've realised that I have been the gardener in all my past relationships, it's about time to be the flower.

All I've done in the past is give, give and give. I've never asked anything in return, and I know my ex's never asked anything of me. Think it's just a personality thing to give. I get it from mom. To give, requires an understanding, open heart and mind. I'm going to be honest and say that I've become too selfish to be a giver in a relationship. It's just not worth it to give to a guy who's not up to par. What for right?!

What about if someone cheats on you, do you break up and let the relationship go? Or do you hang on and hope that person won't repeat the same offence? I was reading the newspaper yesterday, and in the gossip section. A star has just broken up with her husband of ten years because he cheated on her...It wasn't the first time.
This is my motto: Once a cheater always a cheater!
Why do people cheat in the first place? For the fun and excitement that it brings? Or that humans are not just trustworthy enough?

Trust...what does it mean? Life...what's it all about?

We are the only living thing that kill each other for the sake of killing one another. It's not a survival tact. Sometimes it's just a random act.
Currently in Japan, there has been many incidents with high school students stabbing their peers and parents. It's been brought to the prefectural attention, and they've introduced a new program called "The importance of Life" to the kids at school. How important is your life? How much do you value life? Anyways, just my random rambling on a Friday morning.